HOW TO START CREATING A LIFE YOU’RE OBSESSED WITH
We all dream and desire to have a life we are completely in love with. While the fantasy of it is easy, creating it can be both confusing and frustrating as seeing the path that will get you there is impossible.
That is where I come in. I am the bridge to get you to where you are now to where you want to be…. Aka living a life you love.
Today I will share with you how to start creating the life of your dreams.
1. GET CLEAR ON WHAT YOU WANT
Own the fact that you get to truly design the life you are obsessed with. What do you want to be doing every day? Where do you want to live? Who do you want to work with?
Now, hold the vision as if it is here now. Get into the feeling of it and stepping into the shoes of that version of you. It may feel uncomfortable at first, but the more you practice, the more real it will start to feel.
Remember – you can and deserve to have it all!
2. WORK BACKWARDS TO CREATE A PLAN
Now that you are clear about what you want, map out.
Where do you want to be 5, 3 and/or 1 year from now? Write it down. From there, create a 90-day plan with monthly, weekly and daily objectives to help get you there.
You CANNOT get this wrong. Just do you best. It is better to start than do nothing at all. As you continue you move forward, your objectives will change and you will make the necessary adjustments.
3. BUILD YOUR ALLIES
You are only as strong as the people you surround yourself with… SO CHOOSE WISELY.
Create a mastermind with like-minded individuals that have a similar mission and will build you up!
Anytime you change or start a new adventure, you will have people in your life that will not understand. That is okay - they are not you and a higher power did not call them to do your mission so they could never fully understand. Pick people who get it and are going for it like YOU!
And if you feel comfortable, share your vision publicly and personally with people you trust for added accountability!
4. LET GO OF THE DETAILS
I’ve said this before, but you are never going to know how to do something until you have already done it. Therefore, you will never be able to predict all of the perfectly timed divine action & inspiration that will come as you go on your journey.
Loosen the grip on all the specifics of how or when “it” will happen. All the universe to deliver the “how” in it’s divine timing.
5. EMBRACE THE BUMPS, NOW
Know there are going to be many unforeseeable bumps in the road, no matter how well prepared you are.
While road bumps can be frustrating, they often offer the greatest opportunities for growth towards your highest good. When you start to see these obstacle as opportunities, you can start to be empowered by them rather than a reason to give up.
6. STAY THE COURSE
As well all know, the best things are worth the wait. Your dreams and desire will take time. They are big and beautiful and will require you to put in the hours and be consistent, but it is SO worth it.
Honor the compounding effect. Victory is a series of small daily wins. You will get there. I am with you!
7. TRUST YOURSELF
Life is very busy. It is so easy to get caught up in all the “to-do’s” or place the needs of others before your own but you HAVE to check in with yourself.
Let this become your new priority. Listen to your intuition. You are the one with the vision – you are the chosen one so trust that & tap into it, often. Be willing to stay your course. You know what is right for you. Your intuition is always speaking to you. Listen.
Remember, we are all going to the same place. It is more important to know how you want to feel once you arrive than know how it will all happen. You are not alone. You are a powerful force with a gift that will serve many lives. BREATHE, RELAX, ALLOW!
Send you Love, Light, & Lots of Clarity,